Do your poolside tea parties tend to get a bit raucous? Worry less about the state of the plates thanks to these elegant but sturdy tabletop options. (clockwise from top) Melamine plate ($9/Home James!); melamine flower platter ($16.95/Crate & Barrel); DeBeauty plastic flatware ($38/Barneys New York); and Sydney Alberti Leaf melamine dinner plate ($12/Barneys New York).